13 of the Best Online Dating Apps to Find Relationships

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Looking to find a serious relationship in the age of coronavirus? With doctors advising against in-person romance, flirting with potential new paramours over an online dating app might be the next best option.

But the truth is, online dating can feel overwhelming. It’s not just having to make judgements based off a couple of photos and one-line bios, or the awkwardness of sending direct messages (or DMs) to strangers only to be ghosted. The sheer number of apps and users can make simply swiping seem like a daunting task.

In fact, the online dating audience is expected to grow to 37.5 million users by 2023, according to data from Statista. And by 2040, eHarmony predicts that 70 percent of couples will have started their relationships online. It's possible to make that dating world feel manageable, though—you just have to find the right app. For example, there are niche platforms specifically for those who love farming, bacon, or even beard-stroking (yes, seriously).

If you’re looking to make a broader connection with, say, someone over 40, newly dating after divorce, a single parent, simply want to have a virtual game night date with someone new, or are hoping for a relationship, these online dating apps (some, even free) cover all the bases.

Top best dating apps

1. Match

Match is the second most popular online dating app according to PCMag’s survey of 2,000 people (the most popular is Tinder). As one of the OG dating services (it’s moved from website-only to a website and app), Match has a specific appeal to those between 45 and 65 looking for a serious relationship; additional research by SurveyMonkey found that 58 percent of adults 45-54 years old use Match, more than double the percent who use Tinder. You can download it for free, although that will restrict you to browsing; if you want to actually message potential partners, subscriptions start at $21.99 a month.

2. Tinder

Tinder may have brought on "hookup culture," but it’s still one of the top dating apps in the U.S. It has about 8 million users, the most of any other dating app surveyed by Statista. That means you have a pretty solid chance of eventually matching with someone who piques your interest—even if it takes a lot of left-swiping to get there. The app is free, but you can access premium features starting at $14.49 a month.

3. OurTime

Dating apps aren’t just for Millenials; 20 percent of internet users between the ages of 55 to 64 have used a dating app or service, according to a poll from technology and research company Morning Consult. OurTime turns the idea of hookup culture on its head; instead, it encourages users to search for pen pals, friends, dates, long-term relationships and marriage partners. And according to Statista, nearly a million users in the 50+ age group are on the app.

4. Bumble

Bumble set itself apart from all the other dating services crowding the app store by requiring women to make the first move once a match is made. You also only get 24 hours to send a message, unless you invest in a Boost membership, which starts at $11.99 a month. Women love the app because it cuts down on the number of unsolicited messages, and men love it—in fact, 58 percent of the respondents who preferred Bumble in PCMag’s survey were guys—because it takes some of the pressure of initiating.

5. Plenty of Fish

Another one of the original dating websites-turned-apps with an eye towards finding a relationship, POF had 90 million users in its heydey. It’s still popular (Statista ranked it as number two), and the app claims you’re 2.7 times more likely to enter a conversation in your first 24 hours than on other apps. In polling its female users, the app found that 44 percent were single mothers—and that they find a partner 10 percent faster than the average user. Download and swipe for free, and upgrade to add more photos or show up first to potential partners starting at $19.99.

6. Hinge

After filling in the app’s questionnaire and prompts (think standard icebreakers like: “my biggest pet peeve is…” and “my go-to karaoke song is…”), Hinge will start matching you with users who share common interests. The algorithm also serves you with your “Most Compatible” matches—who you’re eight times more likely to go out with, they say. And not only does the app show you how many people have liked you, but it also tells you what they liked about you, making it easy to start a conversation.

7. OkCupid

OKCupid’s algorithm uses a series of questions to determine what “percentage” you’ll match with any of its five million users. That compatibility-driven focus is especially appealing to women, who made up 58 percent of the respondents who preferred this app in PCMag’s poll. It’s also super-inclusive, offering 12 gender identities and 20 sexual orientations so you can define yourself however you want and match with exactly who you’re looking for.

8. Zoosk

Originally a Facebook app, Zoosk is now one of the largest dating sites out there, with 40 million users since its launch in 2007. Today, it has over a million active users, according to Statista—and 500,000 of those are paying members, which means more than half of the users are seriously committed to finding a match. Instead of forcing you to fill out a lengthy questionnaire, the app’s algorithm notes who you’re interacting with to better serve up potential matches.

9. SingleParentMeet

As tough as navigating dating apps can be, imagine using one like Tinder to find someone who can relate or understand where you’re coming from as a single parent. SingleParentMeet, which has been around for two decades, is the largest online dating service for single parents with more than 1,000 new profiles added each day. You can search for matches and send “flirts” with a free account, but to send and receive messages or call and text without sharing your personal contact info, you’ll have to subscribe for a premium membership starting at $25.99 a month.

10. eHarmony

At this point, eHarmony is a household name. It’s Match’s biggest competitor, and it’s two largest age groups are 30- to 44-year-olds and 55- to 64-year-olds. The sign-up process—which includes a very detailed, 150-question questionnaire—is a slog, but the brand once claimed to be responsible for creating 4% of marriages in the U.S. and guarantees that if you're not satisfied in three months, they'll give you another three months free.

11. Coffee Meets Bagel

Every day at noon, Coffee Meets Bagel will curate and send you quality matches—or "bagels" as they call them—selected by its algorithm. With no swiping involved and a limited daily selection, this app is designed not to overwhelm. Plus, the in-depth profiles and "ice-breaker" questions encourage meaningful conversation, making this app perfect for those looking to start serious relationships.

12. Hily

With more than 14 million users, Hily stands for "Hey, I like you!" The app uses AI to continuously improve matchmaking and has features like Hily stories to help you better capture who you are. The app is free, with an optional subscription for an ad-free and incognito-mode experience.

13. Happn

Got a crush on that cute neighbour but don't know his or her name? Regularly make eye contact with someone while walking your dog but haven't initiated conversation? Happn is a dating app that can help make those seemingly lost connections a reality. By using the location on your phone, you can match with people also on the app who are nearby. With over 70 million users worldwide, chances are you might just find your neighbourhood crush.

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